Polyvagal Theory offers a helpful way to understand how the nervous system responds to safety, connection, and perceived threat. It has become particularly popular among counsellors, psychotherapists and counselling students who want to explore the relationship between emotional wellbeing, trauma and the body.
As a psychotherapist, I have selected books that make these ideas easier to understand and apply. Some provide an accessible introduction to Polyvagal Theory, while others focus on therapeutic practice, nervous system regulation or practical exercises.
Whether you are beginning your counselling training, developing your clinical knowledge or exploring your own nervous system, this guide will help you choose the Polyvagal Theory book most suited to what you need.
The Pocket Guide to the Polyvagal Theory – Stephen W. Porges
Written by the researcher who developed Polyvagal Theory, this accessible guide explores how the autonomic nervous system shapes experiences of safety, threat and connection. Its interview-based format helps make concepts such as neuroception, co-regulation and autonomic states easier to understand.
Best for: Building a clear foundation in Polyvagal Theory and learning directly from its originator.
Best Introduction from the Theory’s Originator
The Pocket Guide to the Polyvagal Theory – Stephen W. Porges
An accessible introduction from the researcher who developed Polyvagal Theory. Its interview-based format helps explain how the autonomic nervous system may shape experiences of safety, threat and connection.
- Introduces neuroception and autonomic states
- Explores safety, connection and co-regulation
- Useful for counselling students and therapists
Anchored – Deb Dana
Deb Dana translates Polyvagal Theory into warm, everyday language, helping readers recognise how different nervous system states can affect their thoughts, emotions and relationships. Personal stories, reflections and gentle practices make this one of the most approachable books for applying the theory to daily life.
Best for: Beginners, personal development and learning practical ways to create greater safety and regulation.
Best Accessible Guide for Everyday Life
Anchored – Deb Dana
A warm and approachable guide that brings Polyvagal Theory into everyday life. Deb Dana uses personal stories, reflections and gentle practices to help readers understand their nervous system and develop a greater sense of safety.
- Explains nervous system states in everyday language
- Includes gentle reflections and practical exercises
- Ideal for beginners and personal development
Put Polyvagal Theory into Practice
Explore nervous system states, triggers, safety and regulation with practical worksheets and reflective exercises in the downloadable Polyvagal Theory Workbook.
Explore the Polyvagal Theory WorkbookPolyvagal Exercises for Safety and Connection – Deb Dana
Deb Dana turns Polyvagal Theory into a practical resource for recognising and working with different states of the nervous system. The book contains structured exercises that help readers identify patterns of protection, notice experiences of safety and develop greater capacity for regulation and connection.
Best for: Practical exercises, reflective learning and applying Polyvagal Theory personally or within therapeutic practice.
Best for Practical Exercises
Polyvagal Exercises for Safety and Connection – Deb Dana
A practical resource for recognising and working with different nervous system states. Deb Dana provides structured exercises that help readers understand patterns of protection and develop greater capacity for regulation, safety and connection.
- Contains structured exercises and reflections
- Helps readers recognise nervous system patterns
- Useful for personal and therapeutic work
The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy – Deb Dana
Written specifically for therapeutic practice, this book explores how Polyvagal Theory can inform the way counsellors understand clients’ responses to safety, threat and connection. Deb Dana combines accessible explanations with clinical examples and practical ways of helping clients recognise and regulate their autonomic states.
Best for: Counselling students, practising therapists and applying Polyvagal Theory within client work.
Best for Therapeutic Practice
The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy – Deb Dana
A clinically focused guide to understanding clients’ responses to safety, threat and connection through a polyvagal lens. Deb Dana combines accessible explanations with examples and practical ideas for working with autonomic states in therapy.
- Connects Polyvagal Theory with client work
- Includes clinical examples and practical guidance
- Useful for counselling students and therapists
Polyvagal Flip Chart – Deb Dana
This visual resource uses clear diagrams and concise explanations to make Polyvagal Theory easier to teach and understand. Designed for use in therapy, training, and psychoeducation, it helps explain autonomic states, the Polyvagal Ladder, and how the nervous system responds to safety and threat.
Best for: Visual learners, counselling students and therapists explaining Polyvagal Theory to clients.
Best Visual Resource
Polyvagal Flip Chart – Deb Dana
A clear visual resource for explaining Polyvagal Theory in therapy, training and psychoeducation. Diagrams and concise descriptions make autonomic states, the Polyvagal Ladder and nervous system responses easier to understand.
- Makes complex concepts easier to visualise
- Useful for psychoeducation and client sessions
- Ideal for therapists, students and visual learners
Polyvagal Practices – Deb Dana
Building on Deb Dana’s earlier work, this book offers a collection of exercises, reflections, and guided practices to strengthen experiences of safety and connection. It encourages readers to become more familiar with their own autonomic patterns and to develop practical ways to return to regulation.
Best for: Deepening practical knowledge, building regular nervous system practices and continuing personal or professional learning.
Best for Developing Regular Practices
Polyvagal Practices – Deb Dana
A collection of exercises, reflections and guided practices for strengthening experiences of safety and connection. It helps readers become more familiar with their autonomic patterns and develop practical ways of returning to regulation.
- Offers exercises and guided reflections
- Supports greater awareness of autonomic patterns
- Suitable for personal and professional learning
See What’s Inside
Preview a selection of worksheets and practical tools included in the workbook.
Includes worksheets, nervous system tools, journal prompts and regulation exercises.
Clinical Applications of the Polyvagal Theory – Stephen W. Porges and Deb Dana
This edited collection explores how Polyvagal Theory has been interpreted and applied across psychotherapy, trauma work, healthcare and other clinical settings. Contributions from a range of practitioners offer diverse perspectives on applying polyvagal-informed ideas, making it broader and more academically detailed than Deb Dana’s introductory books.
Best for: Advanced counselling students, qualified therapists and readers interested in clinical applications across different professional settings.
Best for Advanced Clinical Study
Clinical Applications of the Polyvagal Theory – Stephen W. Porges & Deb Dana
This detailed collection explores how Polyvagal Theory has been interpreted and applied across psychotherapy, trauma work, healthcare and other clinical settings. Contributions from different practitioners offer a broad range of polyvagal-informed perspectives.
- Explores applications across different clinical settings
- Includes contributions from a range of practitioners
- Better suited to advanced students and therapists
Our Polyvagal World – Stephen W. Porges and Seth Porges
Stephen and Seth Porges present Polyvagal Theory through familiar experiences involving relationships, work, parenting, health and wider society. Written for a general audience, the book uses everyday examples to explore how feelings of safety and threat may influence how people think, behave, and connect with one another.
Best for: Beginners, general readers, and those seeking to understand how Polyvagal Theory may relate to everyday life and relationships.
Best for Understanding Everyday Life
Our Polyvagal World – Stephen W. Porges & Seth Porges
An accessible exploration of Polyvagal Theory through familiar experiences involving relationships, work, parenting, health and wider society. Everyday examples show how feelings of safety and threat may influence behaviour and connection.
- Written in accessible, everyday language
- Explores relationships, health and society
- Suitable for beginners and general readers
Polyvagal Card Deck – Deb Dana
This set of 58 cards offers short exercises and prompts to explore nervous system states, develop self-awareness, and strengthen experiences of safety and connection. The cards can be used individually, during reflective work or as a flexible resource within appropriate therapeutic sessions.
Best for: Practical activities, visual learning and introducing brief polyvagal-informed exercises into personal or client work.
Best for Short Practical Activities
Polyvagal Card Deck – Deb Dana
A set of 58 cards containing short exercises and prompts for exploring nervous system states, developing self-awareness and strengthening experiences of safety and connection.
- Includes 58 exercises and reflective prompts
- Flexible enough for personal or therapeutic use
- Ideal for practical and visual learning
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